Gallery Addition to 2024 Holiday Letter
Marion
Davis (1923 – 20??)
Here’s a
brief (relatively) bio of Marion’s long and interesting life…so far.
It’s not
an obituary. She’s still very much
alive!
Marion Davis (1923 –
20??)
Marion
was the seventh of eight children born to Jessie and Fred Davis of Livingston,
Wisconsin. Born and raised there, she maintained strong ties to Livingston and
its quaint surrounding villages throughout her life.
As
was the family tradition, Marion attended the University of Wisconsin in Platteville,
known then as Wisconsin State Teachers College, from 1941-1944. She recalled
that the college emptied of all its male students in January of 1942, as they
left to serve in World War II. Marion launched her teaching career in Sparta,
Wisconsin, where she taught third grade for one year (1944-1945) before, at the
urging of musician friends there, she made the bold move to Chicago. There she
initially roomed with three Knudson girls who were already established there,
and soon found a singing teacher, who led her to her first job in downtown
Chicago. Marion made her life in Chicago, absorbing all it had to offer, and
never left.
Always
the songstress, Marion’s real passion in life was music and singing. In 1949 she
sang the lead in a performance of “Cavalleria Rusticana” at the American Opera Company in Chicago. I
found a flyer to authenticate that in our old piano bench (I thought it was an
impressive find and had it framed some years ago). In 1950 Marion entered a
singing competition and won the opportunity to sing a solo in Chicago’s
Orchestra Hall. This led to a later opportunity to sing live on an NBC
broadcast in 1952. Marion sang in the University of Chicago Rockefeller Chapel
Choir from 1948-1964.
In
her early years in Chicago (1952 – 1964), Marion worked in the accounting
department of NBC, where she also sang on the radio with their orchestra on
occasion. She recalled handing a young Bob Newhart his first paycheck. When she
asked him what he did there, he replied, “I’m supposed to be a comedian”! Can’t
you just imagine him stammering that line?
We
all have some fond childhood memories of Marion. One of mine is that she would
come to visit at Christmastime, and always brought us the most beautifully
wrapped presents! I remember thinking that she was such a sophisticated woman,
and I was so proud that she was an “opera” singer. We (kids) thought that she shopped
exclusively at Marshall Field and had the most exquisite taste (In later years
she discovered the wisdom and fun of Marshall’s and T.J. Maxx!). I remember my
mother (Marion’s oldest sister) making saffron bread for her and buying a block
of Shullsburg sharp cheddar cheese every Christmas.
She always requested roasted capon for dinner (or at least that’s what our
mother prepared because she thought it was Marion’s favorite). Marion didn’t
like our cats, but they persisted in jumping up on her. I wish I could locate
the photo of Marion sleeping on our living room sofa with all the cats sleeping
on top of her! In later years, Marion would thank us for putting up with her “idiotsyncrasies”, as she called them.
Sara
and I visited Marion when we were young kids, taking the Greyhound bus to
Chicago. We had dinner at a fancy restaurant
with Marion’s friends from NBC and Sara and I ordered hamburgers while everyone
else ordered steaks. I remember “debating” the merits of Chicago vs. Milwaukee
with the other dinner guests. On other trips to visit Marion I remember having
bright red hot dogs on the lakefront.
Another
fond memory we all have of Marion is when she attended church with us. When we
got to the hymns heads would turn to see who was singing in that beautiful
resonant voice. Of course it was Auntie Marion!
In
1964, at age 40, Marion returned to Platteville to complete her Bachelor degree.
The following year she settled into a twenty-year teaching career (1965-1986) in
Franklin Park, Illinois, first teaching fourth grade, then later fifth grade.
Marion
always impressed me with her beautiful resonant speaking voice, immense
vocabulary, and impeccable grammar. I used to imagine what a wonderful teacher
she must have been and wonder if the students in her classroom appreciated that.
Certainly her adult friends and co-workers did.
Marion
maintained a life-long interest and involvement in education, both that of her students
and herself. She was an avid reader, a formidable Scrabble opponent, and an ace
crossword solver! She was a patron of all the cultural arts as well: well-versed
in the latest exhibits at Chicago’s Art Institute, a reliable source of
information on FLW’s architectural endeavors, a fan and regular attendee of the
Chicago Symphony Orchestra and the Lyric Opera. Marion was a devoted FLW (Frank
Lloyd Wright) fan and volunteer for 30 years (1981-2011). She even has a stone
in the walk at the visitor’s center. I have a photo of that, too.
Marion
was a traveler, usually with an educational purpose as well as for pleasure. I
remember her telling of one trek following the trail of Lewis & Clark.
Other Elderhostel trips took her to Great Britain in 1986 and 1988.
In
1991 Marion sang with the Berkshire Choral Festival in Massachusetts, as part
of a week-long project culminating in their performance of Handel’s oratorio, “Nebuchadnezzar”. In 1995 she sang with a choral
group in Canterbury, England, where they performed Mozart’s “Mass in C Minor”. The choruses were
nearly 200 voices from all over the United States and Canada as well as
England, Scotland and other parts of Europe. In both of these week-long endeavors
the groups spent time rehearsing during the week and performing on Saturday
night with the orchestra and soloists. In Canterbury, Marion and her roommate
were housed within the walls of the Canterbury Cathedral precinct. I believe
these two experiences must have been a couple of the highlights of her travels,
as they combined her love of music and travel.
Marion
was active in the church for many years, especially in the choir. She sang in
the University of Chicago Rockefeller Chapel Choir from 1948-1964, followed by
ten years with the
Roosevelt University Chapel Choir. Marion was a member of the First
United Church of Oak Park since 1974, where, of course, she sang in the choir. She tried to give up singing in the choir when
she felt she was getting too old for it (only 87) but the director asked her to
come back...so she did. She continued to sing in the choir for another four
years, until June 1, 2014, her finale performance.
Since
1989, Marion was a member of the 19th Century Club in Oak Park. This
group, established in 1891 with a benevolence agenda, meets weekly in study and
appreciation of the arts, music and social sciences. Its members, all women
until recently, share in a variety of cultural and fundraising activities, engaging
local talent to play, sing, speak, and otherwise entertain and educate the club
members. The club provides 5-6 college scholarships each year for graduating
high school students.
Physically
active throughout her life, Marion was very disciplined about taking her daily
walk and exercising at the YWCA, attending yoga and water aerobics classes. Because
of her diligence in maintaining her health (body, mind, and spirit) she enjoyed
a long and fruitful life. Marion resided at the historic Altenheim
in Forest Park from 1997 until August 15 of 2016, when she moved to Heritage Square
in Dixon, Illinois. Ten of us gathered there with Marion to celebrate her 100th
birthday (July 17) in 2023. She was still sharp as a tack and walking briskly! We were all amazed by her youthful vitality!
Marion
celebrated her 101st birthday with a small family gathering. Earlier
in the year a new superintendent came to Heritage Square. At his welcoming
party he held a spelling contest, which Marion won handily! Later
that same year she was asked to sing (and did) at the Heritage Square 50th
Anniversary gala, accompanied on piano by the Director of Nursing.
Her
final resting place will be in Livingston, Wisconsin’s historic Rock Church
Cemetery.
Marion
through the years in photographs
Ye Olde Family Photo
Actually,
I’ll have to research this one. Marion might be the baby in my grandmother’s (her
mother’s) arms…
or she might not have
been born yet.
I think
Marion is the one pouting on the right!
The old
homestead in Livingston, Wisconsin
Marion
in 1947 (24 years old) Opera diva Marion
Marion
in 1965 (42 years old)
Visiting
the Howdle studio in Mineral Point, Wisconsin
Marion
and her good friends in Forest Park, Illinois
Marion
at Sara and Larry’s house in Milwaukee
Marion and
Lily at my house in Richland Center
Marion
and Tiger at Sara and Larry’s house in Marshall
Marion
at the Rock Church Cemetery in Livingston, Wisconsin
Marion’s
memorial stone at the Rock Church Cemetery in Livingston…
No, she’s
not there yet!